Marriage is complex and has been part of human life for thousands of years. Romance is exciting, but lasting partnerships rely on something deeper: The interplay of human instincts, cultural norms, and intentional alignment. This blog series breaks down the key insights from our newest white paper: Marriage Instincts and Best Practices for Alignment, Connubial Bliss, and Next Steps to Do Today. In it, we explore how couples can cultivate enduring connection and fulfillment.
Key Points
- Instincts: Humans naturally seek partnership and cooperation, just like many animals.
- Culture: Culture shapes how we act on our instincts, reinforcing shared values and commitment.
- Alignment: Strong marriages combine instinct and culture through shared goals, support, and intentional choices.
Why This Matters
Understanding these forces can help couples move beyond reactive behavior to build intentional, fulfilling relationships.
Next Steps to Do Today
- Take 5 minutes to reflect on what “alignment” currently looks like in your relationship.
- Jot down one instinct or cultural expectation you think strongly influences your partnership.
- Start a conversation with your partner about one area where you want more intentional alignment.
Next time we’ll dive into why alignment — shared values, goals, and vision — matters more than romance for sustaining a marriage.