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We Have No Chance of Closing the Wealth Gaps in America Unless We Help Children Get the Right Start in the First Three Years of Life

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May 12, 2022

We Have No Chance of Closing the Wealth Gaps in America Unless We Help Children Get the Right Start in the First Three Years of Life

We have absolutely no chance of closing the earning gaps or the wealth gaps in our country if a majority of the children in the low-income groups can’t read.

We have failed in closing the learning gaps in our country for over three decades — and the number of children in our schools who can’t read even close to grade level has actually increased every year.

The cold hard biological and functional fact and reality is that the only time when we can build the learning capacity foundational levels in the brains of our children is in the first three years of life when we can actually build neuron connections by the billions in the mind of each child.

The brains change for our children at age 4

Nothing that is being done in our schools to correct the major and painful learning deficits in all of those settings has succeeded for more than 30 years and the hard truth is that nothing that is being done even with the very best intentions in our schools is going to succeed now because the only functional time when the right set of capabilities can be created in each of our children to create both that opportunity and that ability to learn is around 15 months of age. It’s absolutely, definitely and clearly not at 15 years of age or at any of the other ages where all of our efforts today are being focused and are happening.

We’re failing everywhere and we’re failing badly. That information is so painful and so unbelievable that it isn’t being used anywhere for our children in all of those failed settings where our children so badly need that information to help create better lives.

The relevant epigenetics of learning for our children are absolute and universal and clear

We need everyone who cares about our children and our schools to understand this reality. We have almost no one in education or community and public policy settings that even mentions neurons or the impact of those first weeks, months, and years in all of their attacks on our schools for the obvious failures of our schools across the country.

The learning gaps that were terrible before, got worse with Covid. No one in any of our media or political settings pointed out the direct impact that the Covid-related behaviors had on the early neuron connections of our children and described the lifelong damage done to all of the children because those connections didn’t happen.

This shouldn’t be happening.

Our wiring is actually pretty clear when we understand what it is.

We all have the same epigenetic programing in our brains. That basic and universal program is set up to allow each of us to easily connect neurons in our brains by the billions and even by the trillions in the first three years of life and then the epigenetics cause us to actually change the process entirely for each child and to start purging the unused neurons from our brains for every child at age 4.

The science of brain development for each child is absolutely clear. It’s extremely important at an individual, direct, and personal level for each child and for each group of children to help children when those development processes are happening.

If we help children develop the basic neuron connections in the first two and three years of life, they’ll have amazing and extremely powerful abilities and capabilities that will last their entire lives. Billions of neurons connect in each brain when we make those connections in those first months and years of life — and they support each child for life.

The children love having those connections made. They thrive and flow and prosper emotionally when those connections are being made. Families who make those connections know that they are golden times in their lives and in the lives of their children.

But if we miss that time-limited opportunity for any child and we don’t make those connections — catching up is extremely difficult. The cold, hard, and cruel reality is that children who are behind at age 4 for those neuron connections spend their entire lives with lower ability to read, lower capability to do mathematics, and less ability to learn new subjects of almost any kind, compared to the children who had those connections happen in those first months and years of life.

Most programs to help those children after age 4 fail badly — even when they couldn’t be more well-meaning and well intentioned for the children.

Well-meaning, well-intentioned, and even sometimes well-funded and well-resourced kindergarten and pre-kindergarten programs have failed in so many settings to make discernable improvements in the learning levels for children, because the pre-kindergarten programs in those schools almost always start after the children are 4 years old, as the neurons are being purged from the children.

We need to love and support and nourish and nurture and defend and continue to help and protect and educate the children who’ve fallen behind by age 4. We shouldn’t abandon or give up on any child ever — but we should all know and we should collectively understand the hard reality that the children who are not learning ready at age 5 will simply not be good at reading or as good at doing math as the learning ready children at age 4 — and those children will have much more difficult lives when they literally have billions fewer neurons to work with for all of those areas of learning and development.

That creates very real problems for those children. We need to have plans in place to help those children with fewer neuron connections have good lives that support them at multiple levels and end up with the right sets of tools for their lives.

Children who can’t read are much more likely to drop out of school

The people who fall behind by age 5 are much more likely to go to jail than the children who are ready to read at that age. We imprison more people than any country on the planet by a large measure. When we look at our African American males in their thirties who have dropped out of high school, we see that 60 percent of the high school dropouts are actually in jail today and the sad and painful truth is that 80 percent of the dropouts will spend time in jail over their lifetime.

By contrast, when we look at African American males who have graduated from high school, we see about 10 percent in jail.

Ten percent in jail is still a horrible, wrong, and painful number and 10 percent in jail reflects some serious discrimination and major and multiple inequities in various aspects of our communities and our legal system — but we each need to recognize and understand that 60 percent in jail is even more horrible than 10 percent  and the functional reality is that we can now know with more than 80 percent accuracy by age 3, based on the neuron connections that happened for each child in the first two years who will be dropping out of school.

Learning readiness is key

We now know from good science that learning readiness at age 3 depends on the neuron connections that were formed in the children’s brains in those first three years.

We also know that those connections can all be created and supported in each and every child if we do the right things now as a country to make the right things available to each and every child in those first months and first years.

Other countries have similar incarceration patterns for their high school dropouts. They tend to have far fewer people in jail in other countries, but that particular pattern is very similar.

Sixty percent of the people in jail today in England can’t read. More than 70 percent of the people in jail in Canada have dropped out of high school there. Scotland actually has more than 80 percent of the people in their prisons unable to read.

Scotland has figured that connection out, and they’re currently trying to do things to help children in the first three years of their lives to be able to build the neuron connections that will enable them to read, because some of their people believe that the very best way they have of reducing the number of people in jail in Scotland is to have those neuron connections exist in higher numbers for every child.

Our own school learning gaps are bad and they have gotten worse

In America, we now have over 60 percent of the Hispanic and African American students in our schools who are not reading at the needed levels. The average net worth of Hispanic families in American is under $40,000 and the average net worth of African American families is now at $23,000 — and we know that the average net worth of Caucasian families is more than $180,000 — and it is clearly growing.

We have multiple levels of prejudice and discrimination that are driving the earning and wealth inequities for us as a nation, and we do need to directly address all of those issues in a number of ways but we also need to make it a major priority for absolutely everyone from every group to be able to read when they graduate from school because we create a major portion of that package of inequities for people’s entire lives if we don’t have that ability for each child.

The average net worth of high school drop outs from every group is currently at $18,000.

So what do we do now?

We need the learning gaps to go away. Ending those gaps should be a top priority for us all starting now for every child being born in America today.

Some school systems are particularly troubled. In many of the Milwaukee schools, only 15 percent of the students can do grade level computations. The likelihood of the students in Milwaukee schools who can’t do grade level computations now who somehow are able to get jobs later that pay at or above community norms in Milwaukee is obviously low.

We need a plan for Milwaukee to help every child from every group get some basic support in the first weeks, months, and years of life that can make those connections for every child. We need the school systems in every setting putting resources into helping new born children get that wonderful and positive start that is transformational for every child, and a sense of happiness and even joy for every parent and child.

It doesn’t require a lifetime of new support. We just need a relatively short time to make a huge impact.

The epigenetics tell us that children can get a lifetime of good trajectories from interactions in the first weeks, months, and years of life, and Dr. Beatrice Beebe, from Columbia University, can project with about 80 percent accuracy whether children are on the right tracks or difficult tracks at only 100 days old.

Every child who is behind at 100 days can be helped. The ones who stay behind and don’t have interventions have very weak reading levels in the second grade, according to the Columbia research.

This science about the huge impact of the first years of life is not new information. We have had extremely good information that we’ve chosen to ignore or pretend for various political reasons did not exist.

The Institute of Medicine (IOM) important research and policy document of more than two decades ago, called “Neurons to Neighborhoods,” did an extremely good job of explaining exactly what the problem and the opportunity in early brain connectivity in the first months and first years is for all of our children. That very clear and accurate brain development information from the Institute of Medicine very sadly turned out to be too painful, too politically incorrect, and too challenging for anyone in our communities, our schools and our policy settings to actually functionally use it since it was produced, so it was completely ignored.

Our politicians and our education communities have failed miserably and even sometimes shamefully in using that extremely important information about each child in any functional way. Our school districts have tried with great energy and with clear commitments and good intentions in many settings to close the major learning gaps in the schools but the school districts ignore the actual science and they start too late for a very large proportion of our children to give them the support they need.

We could’ve done far better on all of those facts, opportunities, and issues.

The educators of our country in almost all of our educational settings have either not learned the science, or they’ve avoided the science and avoided the epigenetic reality of the first three years. The school districts have focused on older children and have completely ignored and avoided the fact that the schools with learning gaps will always fail in closing those learning gaps at age 15 if the children in the schools aren’t learning ready at age 5.

Some educators in some settings have even banned discussions of neuron connection issues that seem tied to some inexplicable and highly unfortunate political correctness rule sets and decisions, but that avoidance of that science and that avoidance of those developmental time frames for each child is extremely wrong and damaging and banning the use or even mention of that information has given us some of the worst learning gaps in the world and has given us millions of badly prepared and badly educated children who face difficulties for their entire lives because of those gaps and challenges.

We often blame the schools. We even often blame the teachers when those learning gaps happen and we don’t do the things we need to do in each of those settings to keep those learning gaps from happening again every year, and to give the teachers a context where they can succeed in their teaching efforts.

That is extremely sad. That massive failure actually should not have happened in the past for all of those children in those settings and it also absolutely does not need to happen again.

We need to very intentionally change direction on key parts of that agenda now.

The children are ready.

Every child from every group is programmed to learn and children from every group are all also strongly programmed to love to learn.

Our children who get those needed interactions in the first months and first years of life absolutely love getting them. There is a universal joy and visible connections and pleasure with those very young children from that learning. The children from every group all deserve that opportunity to learn.

We need to change our focus from political correctness, political cowardice, scientific error and ignorance, and wishful and sometimes magical thinking to actually helping children, and we need to do that very soon because most of our schools now have a majority of children who find it difficult to read or count and those numbers are actually getting worse.

Covid actually did extensive damage to the learning levels in almost all schools as well, and several studies have shown that the schools at the low end of the learning gap have seen their performance dropping even further with the Covid restrictions and with the restricted and Covid-limited learning opportunities — and that damage is likely to be permanent for too many people and it is likely to do continued damage in far too many settings.

We should not have had those gaps in the first place. We should all know the science everywhere. We should also put tools in place to help children everywhere. We know what those tools are — and we need to begin using them in every community and in every educational setting and to do that now.

The foundational tools are available to us and they are easy to use

Books can have an almost magical positive impact on children and families.

Books can and should be a key part of that agenda and of that neuron development strategy and we should make books available to all children in every setting now.

Books actually and functionally give us an extremely easy-to-use tool that can help children in direct and enjoyable ways, and multiple studies show us today that we fail miserably and inequitably in using that tool for far too many of our children now.

Books should be everywhere that we have children. They can be extremely useful and books should be used in all of our settings for all of our children because they work so well and they are so extremely easy to use.

Books help neurons connect because they tee up and enable and facilitate the interactions with adults and children that make the connections happen and books can create a context of both security, safety, pleasure, and even joy for each child as they are being used.

It isn’t magic, but it has an almost magical positive impact on children. Books are hugely useful and highly effective in that neuron connectivity stimulation process because they facilitate and structure and easily create and support the direct interactions with adults that inspire the neuron connections to happen for each individual child.

We all need to know how to help neurons connect in our children, because those connections are so extremely important for the life trajectories of every child and they are more likely to happen if we all understand the process and support it in various ways.

Talking Is Key

Talking is key. Talking has great power to make those connections happen and we are epigenetically wired to link those processes in the brains of our children when talking happens.

Talking to children is actually the key action step that is needed at the individual levels by every child.

The full and specific functional opportunity that builds neuron connections by the billions is for the children in the first years of life to have a direct interaction with at least one adult that involves spoken words. The children can each build a billion neuron connections in very short order just by having a direct verbal interaction and exchange with an adult.

Children need to hear words spoken by adults in an interactive way to make those neurons connect. Books can create the context and a very easy opportunity for those spoken words and for those functional verbal interactions to happen and books are extremely easy to use and distribute in almost every setting.

Books are also relatively cheap and can provide massive value for very little expense. Children love being read to — and studies have shown a decrease in some negative behaviors in settings where there are books available to help structure and support the interactions during high stress times.

Multiple studies have shown that the children in settings with no books and with no daily reading hear on average less than 5 thousand spoken words by age 5. By contrast, the children in the homes that read even once a day, hear more than 200,000 spoken words by age 5. Hearing 200,000 spoken words gets over 60 percent of the children up to learning readiness levels that allow them to both compute and to read when they are in both grade school and high school.

The most important and relevant and achievable number is to have at least one book in the home and to have enough books to read to the child daily — and the children who hear 250,000 words or more because they are read to at least once a day are much more learning ready when they get to kindergarten because billions of neurons connect every day when that happens.

That is extremely important and useful information. It gives us an easy to use and highly effective tool to make those learning gaps go away.

We need at least one book being read every day for every child in every home.

We can each make that a personal and community goal. We can not only get books to our own children and family — but we can get them for our coworkers’ children and our neighbors, members of our community, and faith organizations.

For the homes with illiterate parents who can’t read themselves, there is still a positive and high-value impact from using the books. Just telling the story to the child from the books has a highly effective and positive impact on building neuron connections that is far better for each child than not having the books in those homes.

We very much need those neurons to connect.

Almost half of the births in our country this year will be in Medicaid homes. That direct contact with that well-intentioned, positive, and supportive program should actually give us a wonderful opportunity to help all of those children if we intentionally and explicitly have each of the Medicaid care givers coaching and teaching every mother and every father and even relevant family members on doing the basic things in the first months and first years of life that create billions of neuron connections in their children’s brains.

It's easy coaching and it’s extremely useful information that too many Medicaid caregivers do not share today, and it is both sad and wrong and extremely deficient for us as a community if we fail to provide that coaching and that support to over half of the parents who need it at the exact time when they can make the most use of that information.

Medicaid obstetricians should be coaching Mothers on those issues before the baby is even born

We fail miserably in teaching Mothers and Fathers and other family members the benefits of those interactions, and that information and coaching should be a core ingredient of our Medicaid care team expectations and a key part of our basic care package for our children and every school district in America should recognize they will have no possibility of eliminating their learning gaps if they don’t support this process now in every setting.

We should not continue to fail.

The biggest logistical shortcoming, failing, deficiency, direct inequity, clear disparity and even functional health status danger to our children is that we now know from multiple studies that more than half of the Medicaid homes do not have a single book and we are doing absolutely nothing to correct that deficiency.

We should not blame the parents.

It makes sense at several levels for some of those homes not to have books. Low-income mothers and families who have to spend every penny on food and on rent and on clothing and who have significant basic transportation expenses as well far too often don’t have the money on hand to also buy books and we know that over half of the Medicaid homes actually do not have one book because they can’t afford them and because their care teams in far too many settings have never given them the medical context for having and using the books.

That situation is just wrong.

Having more than half of the low-income homes without one single book is actually almost criminal. Books are relatively cheap and they are universally loved by both parents and children and we should simply give them out from every Medicaid care site and from the WIC programs that most of the Medicaid mothers use for food related issues and availability.

When one WIC program in Los Angeles (Little by Little) passed out books along with healthy food to their Medicaid-linked WIC mothers, they raised the learning readiness level to nearly 60 percent for those homes that received the books.

We need to support those kinds of programs everywhere. The pure fairness and basic equity issues alone should cause us to act in those directions.

The average American non-Medicaid home now has over twelve books per child. A high number have over 20 books per child. The children in those homes love having the books and multiple studies have shown the low-income mothers who are given the books treasure the opportunity and the resource when they get the books, and the clear result is that the children often show great joy when actual books are made available to them and the learning readiness gaps shrink significantly.

So it should be absolutely unacceptable to us when most Medicaid homes don’t have books and our educators and caregivers and any and all people who believe in equity between groups of Americans should make getting books into those homes a priority.

We need to make learning readiness for all children a top priority

We should all look at the science and we should all understand the science and we should all help all of the children using that science.

The Harvard Center for the Developing Child has wonderful information on these processes and those issues. They have done great work on that entire set of issues, and the clearly understand what needs to be done. The Brain Hero video is worth watching for context.

So, what should we do now to help our children?

We Americans need to do five things to help our children:

  1. 1. We need everyone relevant to education in every single community setting and to health care in every care setting to understand the extreme importance of brain development in the first three months and first three years of life for every child. Anyone and everyone in education in America should know and understand these issues and it should be part of the culture, the belief system and the direct foundation and the context for all educators in America. Education isn’t just K to 12 anymore. Education is clearly from birth on, and we know should all know that the first three years determine who is going to be functional and capable in our high schools and in our universities, and in our advanced education settings.
  2. 2. We need every single new parent in America to know very directly that the first three months and the first three years of life give their children huge amounts of building and growth opportunities for their child’s personal and individual life trajectory tool kit — and we need all parents to know the things that can be done to help their children in that time are easy and fun to do as well as being extremely important and valuable at functional levels for their children.
  3. 3. We need to get books to every child. Books are the most effective, easiest and highest impact short term, medium term and immediate asset for each child and for each family — and we need every school board and every health site for kids to figure out ways of making books available to every child so they don’t have those huge learning gaps in their schools. We can get books from multiple directions and get them quickly and make it a sin for any community that has children in it not to be supporting those processes and approaches for every child.
  4. 4. We need to help every child who has fallen behind by age 4 with the kind of support that can create earning trajectories and learning trajectories and functional support for their lives. As we look at social determinants of health issues, we need to provide targeted and effective support for those people and those patients. One care system looked at their patient population and discovered that the African American women who had dropped out of high school were more than twice as likely to have diabetes as adults. We need to incorporate that kind of data into our care plans for all patients and we should all understand the impact of the Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) data and research as well on the risk levels and care strategies for people’s lives.
  5. 5. We should all recognize and understand that the neuron connection process and the epigenetic dictated time frame is extremely important information at a foundational level. We each need to have a sense of current urgency on the neuron connection issues and we should each apply that learning and that sense of opportunities to our lives and to our families and to our communities wherever that science and that process is relevant to what we are doing.

The wealth gaps in America are huge. There are layers of prejudice, discrimination, bias, and a number of other relevant factors that also cause those wealth and earning gaps to exist — and that total package of prejudice makes it even more important for us all to move upstream in the process and to change those trajectories for all of our children in those first weeks and months and years of life so that we can do what needs to be done so that the overwhelming majority of our people will be able to read.

Chicago has a very high number of murders right now. When we look at who is being murdered in Chicago, we know from multiple studies that 90 percent of the murders involve gang members. We also know from extensive data that 90 percent of the gang members in Chicago today are high school dropouts.

We now know that we could have predicted with 90 percent accuracy by age 3, which of those people in those Chicago settings actually were going to drop out of school.

We should be helping every single child who is being born in Chicago today to get the right level of support to keep them off that trajectory of gangs, prison, and early death and onto a pathway to much better lives.

We also know from the Federal Reserve Bank data that when we look at those first three years and their impact on our life trajectories, the people who have a college degree in America have a net worth of about $243,000. We also know that the people who have a post graduate degree in America have an average net worth of $484,000, and we know that the people who dropped out of school from all groups have a net worth as adults of $18,000.

Those are very different numbers.

We need to understand clearly and we need to accept intellectually that no one from any group has a chance or a hope or a possibility of either college graduation or a post college degree without personally and individually having somehow had the direct experience of having the right and needed set of neuron connecting interactions happening in those first three years of their lives in order to make that learning possible.

We need to be real and we need to be painfully honest with ourselves about that need and about that opportunity for each and every child.

We actually do know the science.

We each need to use that science now to help our children.

We’re all ethically, morally, personally, logistically, and functionally deficient if we don’t use and share that information about those opportunities for each and every child in effective and useful ways with everyone who should know it now that we actually know it to be true.


Do the sharing and the support for the children now.

Covid just made everything worse — and we need to recover from Covid and we need to also give our very youngest people from every group the best chances they could ever have by getting this process right for each child and by doing it well now to help offset that Covid damage.

Share this information and this opportunity with anyone and everyone in your life and in your community and in your various spheres of influence and impact who can and should make better decisions in what they do by knowing and understanding this reality to be true.

James Heckman and Jorge Luis Garcia just wrote two follow up reports that echoed the work that Dr. Heckman did to win the Nobel Prize on this topic. They looked at the major studies and the effectiveness of the major programs for early education and they concluded that there is very “powerful evidence for the effectiveness of low-key parenting programs” to accomplish the goals that we need to achieve and do at a very affordable cost.

We have massive and multiple opportunities to help the children and they do not need to cost much money. We have significant resources as a country and the sad reality is that we will not have as many resources going forward when the wealth gaps in America continue to get worse in the ways they will if we don’t help our children now.

Some people argue for reparations for some of the inter group damage we have done as a country. Whether or not we create  reparations of any kind for any group over time, we can and should clearly spend a few dollars for family support for members of relevant groups. We should spend whatever money is useful and easily available for books and children from every group getting both support and creating and enabling the joy that every child has in those first months and years when learning happens for each child.

All parents from every group love their children. We can show that love by helping each and every child with the interactions and tools and books that give love a channel and an opportunity for each family and child..

We should all know and understand that we have absolutely no chance of changing those horrible and painful wealth gaps and inequities for our country if we continue on our current trajectory for supporting our children.

Let’s accept and understand that reality and let’s change the paths we are on in the most science-based, functional, and effective way for each child.

You can personally start by sharing this information with everyone you know in education or health care or in the community at any level who might be able to make better decisions in their lives with this information in hand.

Share the love and the knowledge, and do it now because every child you save is a child who is saved.

Share learning — and get books to every kid.

You can personally and individually change the entire life for a child by simply helping those neurons connect for a child at that early age because it is such an immediate, personal, direct and high opportunity process for each child and because the neurons that connect will stay connected for the entire life of the child.

There is probably almost nothing else that you can personally do to have a bigger positive impact with the people in your life right now.

Let’s all help.

Now that we have this core set of key information, it creates a sort of an ethical obligation for each of us to do something with it and to do it now, because children are being born right now and because many will suffer if we don’t change some trajectories for real children now.

We live in a world of possible blessings.

Let’s make them real.